You do not want them to be too heavy with meaty conversation and weighty emotions. A Modern Girl's Guide to Bible Study: A Refreshingly Unique Look at God's Word. which is to go straight into deep, contemplative conversation during that first initial interaction.Įarly interactions should usually be fun, flirtatious, and light. I referred him to my article on anchoring attraction, so that the emotions she feels in conversation with you don't evaporate once conversation ends.īut next I talked to him about something I see a lot of guys get wrong, especially guys who discover deep diving. What goes here Chase? How do I stay detached without creating murky vibes after? Changes bc the girl feels like she overshared and didnt get anything from me. My conversations are interspered w/ a lot of flirting and mild cocky funny quips. I'm careful not to go in too deep with the dives so the vibe is good. Then begin to deep dive without sharing much about myself. I'm still working on my calibration so I don't appear too detached.īut there's an issue I keep running into. I've been told I'm "calm" "mysterious" "like a spy" and some girl even said I'm "distant" and "hard to get to know". My brand of game is the stong silent guy game. Here's a quick Q on the part about not talking about yourself to a girl. On my article “ What an Average Girl's Dating History Looks Like” last year, reader 'Handome & Wealthy' commented:
When you approach a new girl, what should you talk about? Deep topics… or light ones? The answer is: light conversation when you first talk to a girl, if you want success.
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